The
term replacement child is conceptual rather
than literal. It is not meant to describe
one child taking another's place (or
suggest that anyone is ever "replaceable"
), but rather describes an actual
psychological/emotional syndrome. Children
born or adopted after a loss are not
automatically replacement children and
should not be referred to as such.The term,
replacement child, describes the experience
of an individual caught up in a complex
family dynamic when trauma from a loss keeps
parents ( or a parent), from moving forward
. The results can manifest in the lives of
subsequent children or in an older child
whose life is redirected because of the
loss. It is the experience of a child living
in the shadow of a loss, including an
emotional loss or loss of a pregnancy.